I wanted to speak about something that I have been thinking about. I feel that great sex is more mental than physical. Don’t get me wrong, anyone can have great sex if they’re touched in the right spots. Even if they’re blind-folded, you’re going to climax if you’re touched in the right way. But great sex is something different. It’s more than physiology, it’s the mental connection which makes it great. What do you think?
The crazy thing is, even someone who you aren’t physically attracted to can give you great sex and make you want more. Inevitably, your attraction builds over time. Great sex will keep you in a toxic relationship. I’m sure we all know that one person who keeps going back to their ex for sex, even though they know that they are a dick. I always think the key to great sex is to get into the person’s mind first. It’s about building mental connections and getting to understand your partner; listening to words that aren’t spoken and responding in the moment to create a beautiful chemistry. It’s all well and good you trying to touch the right places but are you trying to make a connection or are you just trying to bust a nut?
To truly arouse someone, you have to penetrate their mind first and that will make every action thereafter a whole lot easier. The right chemistry can be addictive and leave you craving for more. Great sex can will leave you lusting for days on end. It will leave craving for your next hit like a crack addict. It makes you feel special and loved, like you’re the only person in the world. Every touch will have thought behind it, even when words aren’t spoken. Soft strokes and hugs throughout the day can even work as reminders to make loved one feels important. So when it does come down to the nitty gritty, they’re already warmed up, ready and waiting.
Great sex is about two people both making an effort; expressing themselves physically and adorning one another with love. You’ll go through that constant tug of war, back and forth until finally, your bodies melt into one another and your mind is blown with every hit that you get. It’s about getting to know your partner and knowing what they like and constantly making an effort to please them. That’s what I call great sex.